social – Clare's Life

Totally heartbroken is all I can say in losing one of my beloved cat boys, your brother and I feel so lonely without u.

Having had you in my life for over 13 years and wished I could have had u longer and it being so sudden has made it worse for me.

The last few months have been so hard, having I both being so ill. Not knowing completely what was wrong with u didn’t help but u were always a hard nut through ur whole life. You never stopped eating which was your trait, you may have been feral at the start but I do hope the love and care I gave u, made u into the most attitude, lord of the manor, pest to your brother, cheeky monkey, biggest farting but also could be so loving and wanted to cuddle in with ur mum (me). Melted my heart. The house feels so quiet without u.

Even writing this and how u cuddled on my chest before u went to sleep for the last time, I can’t help but cry because I loved u and miss u so much.

Your brother misses u and he hasn’t left my side since.

I feel weird every morning, eating my sultana bran and knowing u aren’t trying to get into my dish for the bran flakes and milk, u we’re a cheeky sod but gorgeous and for a boy u did have too much of a pretty face.

Goodnight and love u baby – Dooley xxxx

Well all use Social media these days, but is it a good for us???
Is it now making us over share stuff about ourselves to much??

Facebook is one of the main social outlets for most people. It does have a lot of benefits but is it brings more negatives such as bullying, different opinions.

Benefits:-

So you get to keep in contact with friends and families all over the world;
Sharing photo’s of holidays, nights out, day trips and so on;
You can create groups for businesses, selling pages, groups.

But it has its downsides.

Negatives:-

Pictures can be seen differently:- Inappropriate, too sexy, showing off, expoliting, body shaming;
The list can go on and on.

So what can be done to stop it happening. Actually treating everyone the same, not seeing the negatives or saying stuff just to hurt someone.

I no there are security preferences in place and you can restrict who sees what, but people can still find ways around and really we should all be looking out for each other.

We all need to be each others cheerleaders than enemies, or if you just dont like a person or what they say just dont say or do anything!

Mental health is now happening more than ever and we need to be more aware of the people around us, and see if your family or friends are struggling and what they are putting on any social media and sometimes just a simple text or phone call rather than using social media can be the best solution.

Social Media should be more of a form of enjoyment and not a negative.